Tuesday, April 19, 2022
What is Reiki and How Can it Benefit You?
Thursday, April 14, 2022
Planning Your Witchy Garden
Spring has sprung and for many of us, that means it's time to plan the garden! What do we witches consider to be essential, must-haves in the garden?
Alternative and holistic medicines are more commonplace today than they were just 5 years ago. People are (re)turning to plants and herbs for remedies. The truth is, these remedies are just the ones that were forgotten in favor of chemical laden, prescription medications. As witches, we not only use these plants and herbs for healing, we are using them in our spell work and rituals.
So what are these must-have healing and magickal plants?
* Sage- Common garden sage is a must have in your witchy garden. It is just as effective at removing heavy energies and purification as white sage is. You can also plant white sage if you feel called to do so. Cleansing is not the only thing this powerful herb does. It is known for promoting wisdom and bringing good luck. Because of its natural aroma, sage is also highly effective at keeping pests out of your garden. Medicinally, Sage contains over 160 distinct polyphenols, which are plant-based chemical compounds that act as antioxidants in your body. Sage is linked to impressive health benefits, such as a lower risk of cancer and improved brain function and memory.
*Rosemary- Another common kitchen herb, rosemary packs a powerful punch when it comes to cleansing and protection. Because rosemary is associated with loyalty, it is often used in love magicks and worn during handfasting ceremonies. Rosemary is for remembrance so it is often used or burned during Samhain rituals to honor the ancestors and it can also help facilitate past life recall. This versatile herb can also help to promote healthy hair. Recent studies are showing that it can actually help with hair growth by improving circulation and stimulating nerve growth in the scalp better than some of the prescriptions for alopecia. Rosemary's aroma is also a powerful tool against stress and anxiety. If that weren't enough, there are three immune boosting components found in Rosemary- anti-inflammatories, antioxidants, and anti-carcinogens.
*Calendula- This sunshiny flower is an important herb to include in your garden. The positive and cheerful energy makes a wonderful mood boosting tea/ tincture. Its association with the sun makes calendula a powerhouse when it comes to bringing good luck. Prophetic dreams and messages are also brought by the flowers- just tuck them into a sachet under your pillow. Calendula is revered for its healing properties for skin conditions. Petals can be incorporated into oils and salves for healing wounds, rashes, burns, acne and dry skin. Using tinctures taken internally, calendula is known for being an anti-fungal, antibacterial, helping to stimulate the lymphatic system, to stimulate the menses, and as a digestive anti-inflammatory.
*Mugwort- Artemisia Vulgaris honors the Greek goddess, Artemis. Like its namesake, the plant is associated with the moon, cycles, women’s health, and childbirth. Mugwort can be used to help with menstruation and menopause. However, one of the well known and common uses for mugwort is for its capability to bring one into a deep meditative state and to help facilitate prophetic dreams and psychic experiences. Sister herb, Motherwort is also revered for relieving aches and pains associated with headaches, menstrual cramps, and muscle sprains. Motherwort is another ally during menopause, helping to ease hot flashes and hormone induce irritability. Motherwort can be used in spell work to promote inner trust and self-confidence. It can also be used in fertility spells/ magick.
*Basil- This common and highly aromatic herb is known for its ability to bring luck and abundance and prosperity so it is often included in money spells. Associated with Mars and the fire element, basil should be used for spell work or rituals to bring about strength, courage, and protection. This herb is often included in love and happiness spells. In the garden, basil will help to repel pests. Medicinally, this herb is antimicrobial as well as an anti-inflammatory and can be used to help treat illness. It can also relieve stress and anxiety and help one with mental clarity. Holy Basil is close relative and makes a tasty herbal tea (Tulsi). It too has antimicrobial properties and can be effective when treating colds, coughs, asthma, bronchitis, and sinusitis. Holy Basil has an uplifting energy bringing you lightness and warmth. This herb is also known for being an adaptogen and helps to protect the body from the negative effects of stress.
*Echinacea- This plant is more well known for its immune boosting capabilities. Roots, seeds, and the fresh or dried flowers can be used to make a tasty herbal tea. Magickal uses include power, success and the ability to strengthen spells.
*Bee Balm (Bergamot)- This beautiful plant is one of the best at attracting butterflies and hummingbirds to your garden. Its aromatic scent and enticing flavor makes a wonderful tea and can help one unwind and de-stress. One can use dried flowers in a sachet to bring restful sleep
and possibly interesting dreams. Keep dried flowers/ leaves in your wallet or purse to attract money. It can also be sprinkled (dried) or planted outside the home to draw abundance and prosperity. Due to its high thymol content, bee balm has antibacterial, anti-fungal, and anesthetic properties. It can be used in mouthwashes, foot baths, and douches to relieve odor and/ or itching. It can also be infused into a wash for minor cuts and scrapes.*Mint- This herb is yet another powerful ally for prosperity magick. Because it is associated with the planet Mercury and the element of air, mint can be used in spells to help facilitate good communication, whether it is with a person, spirit guide or deity. Mint is wonderful at providing mental clarity either in a spell or taking internally such as in a tea. This herb is known to help alleviate upset or unsettled stomachs, relieve tension headaches and support sinus health and aid in decongestion.
*Lavender- This magickal herb is known and regarded for its ability to aid in relaxation and promote restful sleep. Use in a tea or in spell work to help with dream recall. Lavender is also known to help bring happiness into a space. Hang or plant near your front door to ensure that negative energies stay away and only happiness, love and joy may enter. Lavender has also been used in love/ fidelity spells. Lavender can be used to treat headaches, nervous disorders, and exhaustion. Additionally, lavender oil can be used to treat skin conditions such as fugal infections, minor cuts and scrapes, eczema, and acne.
Other plants and herbs to consider are yarrow, feverfew, chamomile, stinging nettle, vervain, meadowsweet, hyssop, St. John's wort, comfrey, sunflowers, jasmine, dandelions, and roses.
For anyone considering planting an herb garden or working with them in the future, I recommend purchasing herbal, plant, and flower dictionaries. One of my favorites is Cunningham's Encyclopedia of Magical Herbs by Scott Cunningham. One can also find a wealth of knowledge online.
If you cannot plant a full herb garden, consider plants that might do well in container gardens or windowsill boxes. You can't go wrong by having these amazing plants easily at your disposal. Get creative and Happy Gardening!
**Please note, one should always seek medical attention when necessary and ask their doctor before starting an alternative or holistic herbal regimen.**
Tuesday, March 29, 2022
How Adventure Saved Me: Domesticated Wreck to Wild Woman Rising
My soul was suffering. Suicidal thoughts plagued me daily. It took an enormous effort just to get through each day. The same monotonous life, day in and day out. Get up, get the kids ready, take them to school, go to work, boring fucking office job that I hated but still had to be grateful for because it helped to pay the bills, pick up the kids after work, make dinner, get the kids ready for bed, go to bed myself only to get up and do it all over again the next day. Mixed in there, of course, are the other usual things like cleaning and doing laundry (so much fucking laundry). There were gymnastics classes, soccer, basketball and
baseball games. Those did offer some rays of sunshine into what I considered an otherwise drab existence. Don't get me wrong, I love my children dearly and they are the ONLY reason I kept going but I remember feeling like I was missing something. There was some puzzle piece that needed to be fit into place."We should try backpacking," my then-husband says out of the blue one day. Me with a puzzled look on my face, "Huh? What are you talking about?" "Backpacking. I heard some people talking about it," he says. "You get a big backpack and have all of the gear, food, etc. that you need to survive for a few days and you head out into the wilderness. What do you think?" I'm sitting there, mulling this idea over and wondering if it's possible. The thought of surviving out of a backpack wasn't the issue. I was in love with the idea the moment he explained it. The issue... we lived in Texas. Not a ton of "wilderness" readily available, at least not what I considered to be wilderness. "Sure, I'm in. But where would we go?" I ask. So the planning began.
I had been car and RV camping as a child and always loved it but I couldn't imagine what this "roughing it" experience would do for me as an adult. Upon setting out into the wilderness, I remember being thoroughly giddy. This is a feeling that I hadn't had in a very long time. I felt like I could breathe for the first time in ages. We canoed, we fished, set up camp along the river, made a campfire, ate dehydrated meals, stargazed and fell asleep to the coyote's song. I was a little sore the next morning from having paddled the canoe the day before but that didn't matter. For the first time that I could remember since being a child, my soul felt alive. This. This was the missing puzzle piece. The wilderness, being one with nature, the adventure.
After returning home I felt rejuvenated. This was exactly what I had needed so I did what any (somewhat) sane person would do. I started planning the next adventure. Obviously, we needed to get our shit together as far as our gear was concerned. We couldn't afford new gear right then after already having spent a small fortune on the "wrong" stuff. I started researching backpacking and gear, subscribed to several outdoors magazines like Backpacker and Outside so that when it came time to make new purchases I would be well educated. I researched places to go, "must do trails" and figured out how long it would take to get there since a lot of them were out-of-state. "If we take turns driving overnight then we'll get to the trailhead around 4 am and can sleep for a couple of hours in the car before hitting the trail," was a common thought when it came to destinations. Crazy, I know but you do what you must for the sake of the adventure.
New Mexico, just outside of Ruidoso, was the next adventure. This was a true backpacking trip. There was something so exhilarating about having everything I needed to survive for the next 3 days stuffed into a pack and carrying it on my back. The packs were still heavy as fuck but I didn't mind. I was young and could handle whatever it took to be able to be out there. My first time backpacking, doing it at elevation, having come from basically sea level, 16 miles over 3 days and I rocked it! I was officially addicted. THIS is my happy place.The planning and going, the time put in researching and then being able to carry out that plan, that is what saved me. The adventure fed my soul and gave me back something that I was desperately needing but it was the planning that kept me going day to day. I had a trip planned every summer to an outdoor destination, spring break, and every 3-day weekend was mapped out to include a backpacking adventure. When I was feeling down, I would research destinations. It didn't matter that I already had stuff planned. The thought of a new place, a new adventure helped me to make it through some very dark times. I would remember the feelings while on the trail. I'd look through the photos and I'd think about the sounds, the smells, and how my pack felt, the comforting weight of it. "If I can just make it to the next trip, I'll be fine," became my mantra.
I know first hand what suicide can do to a family. I made a promise to my children to never put them through that so that is the reason I held on when I wanted nothing more than to give up. I guess one would argue that it was my kids that saved me. While that is not untrue, I was simply going through the motions of what needed to be done. I was existing without living. Adventure is what saved me from the dark abyss, the prison that had trapped my soul. Yes, I still struggled but now I had something to look forward to. The coals of a long-dormant fire had been stoked and it now burned within me and has yet to be extinguished. I am not saying that backpacking is for everyone because it isn't. However, there is a healing quality within nature. Adventure gives us back something we lose in the transition from childhood to adulthood. I know it saved me from a place that I couldn't have dug myself out of otherwise.
*If you or a loved one are having suicidal thoughts, please seek help. You are not alone! *
Monday, March 28, 2022
Rabbit Animal Guide
Rabbit, the iconic symbol of the spring season.
Rabbits live on every continent except Antarctica, thus appearing in the mythologies and folklore of different cultures around the world. "The Ojibwe and other Algonquin tribes associate the rabbit with their god, Nanabozho. He is a creator deity who named all of the world’s plants and animals. For the Aztecs, the rabbit symbolized fertility, drinking, and parties. The Aztecs told stories about the Centzon Totochtin, which consisted of 400 rabbit gods. Evidence of the ancient Egyptians celebrating springtime in ways that are similar to how many of us celebrate Easter today date back to at least 2300 BC. The Egyptians depicted hares, eggs, the sunrise, and the resurrection of their god Osiris in the Book of the Dead, other hieroglyphs, and artwork. The Celts also associated rabbits with fairies, believing the two communicated when they were underground. The Celts also believed certain people could shape shift into rabbits, thus they had taboos about killing them. In some Buddhist stories, Buddha is said to have been a hare in an earlier incarnation." *from UniGuide: Stories and Guides for Nature Lovers and Spiritual Seekers by Kristen M. Stanton
Rabbits symbolize fertility, sensitivity, gentleness, haste, new beginnings, the moon, prosperity, and good luck.
Many of us have heard the term "breeding like rabbits". This is because rabbits reach sexual maturity at a very young age, sometimes as early as 2-3 months old and females can have several litters a year. If you and your partner need a little extra help with fertility, call on Rabbit to assist you with the magick. Rabbit can also help with other types of "fertility" such as manifestation or garden witch work to help with soil fertility. Because of this, Rabbit is also associated with prosperity.
Rabbits are highly sensitive creatures. Their large ears help them perceive noises that we cannot along with their large, round eyes that take in everything. If Rabbit has hopped into your life, they could be telling you that there is an issue you need to be more sensitive about. If Rabbit is your life animal guide, then you are more than likely a highly sensitive person.
With their quiet, gentle nature, Rabbit reminds us to treat ourselves gently. Stay clear of behaviors that affect you negatively. They also remind us that others are walking their own soul journey and that we should be kind, empathetic and compassionate.
Is Rabbit dashing through your dreams? This could be telling you that there is an issue or circumstance that needs to be handled with haste or on the flip side, you might be acting in haste and should take caution.
A woman's cycle follows the moon, a 28-day cycle just as the moon circles the earth in 28 days. Because women's menstruation is a sign of her fertility, it isn't a far stretch to see how the Rabbit (a symbol of fertility) became associated with the moon as well. Rabbit would be a powerful ally to call upon during the new or waxing moon for intentions and manifestation magick.
Are you looking to start over? A new home, a new career, a new relationship or getting out of one and on your own, or possibly your spiritual path? As a symbol of spring which is all about renewal and new beginnings, call on Rabbit to help assist you with the transition.
While Rabbit may seem like a small and shy creature, we should not take their magick for granted. Rabbit's energy will work side by side with you for fertility, luck and prosperity, and new beginnings.
Wednesday, September 22, 2021
CELEBRATING MABON
Cooler temperatures. Boots, sweaters, and scarves. Football! Picking apples in the orchard and visiting a pumpkin patch. Apple cider spiked with Fireball Whiskey (if you haven't tried this, you're missing out. Seriously). Trees ablaze in colors of yellow, gold, orange, and red. Halloween! Pumpkin spice everything. What's not to love about autumn? Fall is definitely one of my favorite seasons. Ok, I like them all for different reasons but for me, fall means the end of the relentlessly cruel summer heat and is the gateway to winter which I absolutely adore.
With today being the Autumnal Equinox/ Mabon, I wanted to share a few ways to celebrate and usher in the new season. For those of you that don't know, there are two equinoxes, the Autumnal and the Vernal (which is the one in the spring) every year and two solstices. The Autumnal Equinox's energy is all about balance, gratitude, harvest, and letting go of what no longer serves us. In Pagan and Wiccan traditions, Mabon is the celebration of the second harvest, the first being in mid-August and celebrated as the Sabbat Lammas or Lughnasadh. Mabon is often considered the Witch's Thanksgiving. It is a giving of thanks for a bountiful harvest and the many blessings that have been bestowed upon us. It is also the perfect time to look back on what was planted, metaphysically speaking, in the spring and early summer and take note of what is now being harvested because of our hard work.
With the Equinox also being about balance, we need to be aware of our light and our dark, masculine and feminine, holding on and letting go, work and play, care for self and care of others. Are we living in balance? Where can we improve upon this in our lives?
And just like the trees that lose their leaves, we too need to shed what is no longer serving us. Mabon's energy and the time following that up until Samhain is a wonderful time for decluttering both mundane and spiritually. Most people associate springtime with deep cleaning and decluttering but it is just as important to do this in the fall to "ready our nest" for the dark half of the year. Cutting energetic cords, banishing toxic relationships, releasing negative thought patterns, and working to break bad habits are all ways to energetically declutter.
Here are some ways that you can celebrate the harvest Sabbat of Mabon.
1. Participate in fall-type activities such as apple picking, hayrides, corn mazes, or visiting a pumpkin patch.
2. Make a meal or dessert from harvested foods. Think apple pie, pumpkin bread, roasted veggies, apple cider, etc.
3. Equinoxes are a day of equal light and equal dark- balance. You can celebrate this aspect by honoring balance in your life through yoga, a thorough house cleaning and/ or decluttering, honoring the Divine Masculine and Feminine, or light a white and a black candle to represent the light and dark within you.
4. We all know that autumn is a time of death. The leaves change and fall from the trees; fields become barren after the last harvest; all of the summer flowers begin to wither away. Celebrate this lifecycle by honoring the dark. Stargazing is a great way to do this as well as sitting on the patio at night with a nice fire going in the firepit while drinking some of that apple cider you spent all day making.
5. Make a fall craft (see Pinterest for endless ideas).
6. Get out into nature for a fall leaf hike and collect leaves, pinecones, and acorns.
7. Set up an altar honoring all that is Autumn.
8. Give thanks by making a gratitude list.
Since I mentioned giving thanks, I want to take a few moments to sit in gratitude. I believe that we often get too wrapped up in the things that we don't have or the things that are going wrong instead of focusing on the things that we DO have and the things that ARE going RIGHT. We are so accustomed to the everyday struggle of "keeping up with the Jones'" that we forget to be grateful on a daily basis. Sure we practice this at Thanksgiving here in America but what about the other 364 days of the year? So do me a favor, please. Sit down and make a list of at least 5 things you are grateful for. Here are 5 of mine:
* I am grateful for my two amazing children. They are the lights of my life. I am so grateful that they are healthy and that they think for themselves instead of just following the crowd.
* I am grateful for my best friend. She is my soul sister and fellow badass hiker babe and adventurer. She has lifted me up when I needed it most, makes me laugh like no other, and has made me believe in friendship again.
*I am grateful for my Clan and my path. My coven sisters and my High Priestess have become my family. My path is a continual journey of learning and I love it more every day.
* I am grateful that I get to call the beautiful state of Colorado home. This place is an outdoor enthusiast's playground. Hiking, biking, skiing, fishing, rock climbing. So much fun to be had here and I am taking advantage of it!
* I am grateful for my health. My good health allows me to do all of the outdoor things that I love so much.
Well, witches, I'm headed out to meet my Clan for ritual so I better shut this down. I guess now that it's officially fall we can expect to see some Christmas lights going up. Do NOT get me started on that. *Insert angry emoji face here*. Enjoy this day. Be grateful for it because there are so many that didn't get that chance.
Peace, Love, and Light. Blessed Be.
Friday, June 18, 2021
Shamanism: Myth and Fact
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